Occasion & Sympathy Text Messages by Context

Why it is written this way

I recently heard the news regarding a {{family event type}} for my {{interpersonal relationship}}. I am reaching out via text message since I cannot convey my words in person. Regarding attendance, my status is: {{attendance confirmation status}}.

Task

Please write 3 text message options tailored to this relationship and situation. The three options should vary in length and formality: 1) Short and concise, 2) More formal and polite, and 3) Warm and heartfelt, acknowledging our personal connection.

Format

Keep each option to 2–3 sentences. Below each option, add a one-line "When to choose this" recommendation. Keep the message texts clean with only numbering so they can be copied directly into a text app, placing any additional explanations separately.

Example

Here is a reference for the desired length and emotional tone. Example: "I just heard the sad news about your father. My heart goes out to you. I'm truly sorry I won't be able to pay my respects in person. Wishing you and your family strength and comfort during this difficult time."

Constraints

Do not use expressions that don't fit the event type. For condolences, do not use exclamation marks or emojis, and never include words like "congratulations" or "happy." Do not fabricate any names, dates, locations, or monetary amounts not provided. Avoid overly religious phrasing, and do not offer lengthy unsolicited advice or excessive encouragement in sorrowful situations.

The most common mistake when drafting an occasion text message is providing only the event name, such as "Write a wedding text." When you do this, AI produces a generic template suitable for anyone, which is precisely why it feels unnatural. A message for a direct supervisor requires an entirely different tone and phrasing compared to one for an old friend, but an AI lacking relationship context cannot bridge this gap.

This is why the first paragraph establishes the Context by combining the relationship, event type, and attendance status. Attendance is especially crucial—the closing sentence changes completely depending on whether you can be there in person. Communicating your inability to attend politely makes up half the substance of the text.

Providing an Example in the fourth paragraph sets clear benchmarks for length and emotional tone. Typical search results for sympathy messages often lean either overly stiff or uncomfortably casual. Showing a single concrete sample aligns the AI's tone far more effectively than abstract descriptions.

Demanding 3 variations in the Format recognizes that managing these messages is more about selecting than composing. Having a "When to choose this" note attached to each draft allows you to pick the best fit and send it immediately. Finally, the negative constraints prevent critical blunders, such as accidental exclamation marks in condolence texts or hallucinated names.

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Compared with a bad example

Common bad example

Write a condolence text message.

Without context about the relationship, AI defaults to maximum formal safety. The output ends up resembling a stiff corporate notice fit for an executive, making it awkward and distant if sent to a teammate. Without knowing your attendance status, it might include phrases like "I will see you at the service soon," rendering it unusable if you cannot attend.

Variations

For Celebrations Like Weddings and New Babies

I recently heard the news regarding a {{family event type}} for my {{interpersonal relationship}}. Regarding attendance, my status is: {{attendance confirmation status}}.

Please write 3 congratulatory text message options. Instead of repeating generic clichés, include an encouraging sentence wishing them the best moving forward in one of the options. Keep each option to 2–3 sentences and include a one-line "When to choose this" guide beneath each. Do not invent any names, dates, or locations not provided.

The negative constraints change for celebratory events. Restrictions on solemnity are replaced with instructions to avoid hollow, boilerplate greetings.

When Acknowledging News Late

I only recently learned about the {{family event type}} for my {{interpersonal relationship}}. Regarding attendance, my status is: {{attendance confirmation status}}.

Please write 2 text message options that briefly apologize for the delayed outreach in the opening sentence without making long excuses. Keep each option within 3 sentences and include a one-line "When to choose this" note below each.

When reaching out late, long excuses make it awkward for the recipient to reply. The prompt firmly restricts unnecessary explanations.

Model notes

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